5 Surprising Tips to Beat Financial Blues

Surprisingly, the 5 tips to beating the financial clues comes from Mother Nature herself.

1.  Pay attention to the climate, both inner and outer.  Your inner environment (intuition) is a marvelous gauge that will help us navigate financial uncertainties.  Almost without exception, every entrepreneur I’ve worked with who has suffered financial losses disregarded their gut.  There are always those who do well in a downturn.  They pay attention, and see things that others miss. Animals, for example, are aware of an imminent earthquake or tsunammi long before we are.  Cultivate your instincts, lean into them, and pay attention to results.

2.  Everything has a cycle and a season.  Learn to read the seasons in your life and business: Spring, summer, fall and winter.  It doesn’t do to plant a new crop in winter.   It is a great time to repair, review and plan for spring.  Pay attention to your physical, emotional, mental and spiritual cycles, and those of your business.   A holistic approach to life will allow you to adjust to the ups and downs of business.

3.  Use everything to your advantage.  What seems like a failure may turn out to become your greatest success.  Cultivate the attitude that “mistakes” are steppingstones to new innovation.  Use the principle of cross-pollination.  One of my clients, a world class mining expert, shared that his greatest breakthroughs came from exploring and integrating other modalities into his research.  The results:  billions of dollars for his investors!

4.  Retreat is not defeat. There are times that, despite our best intentions, we are faced with situations outside of our control.  When forest fires strike, animals head away from the flames. What we can control is our attitude.  Take the time to regroup and review what has happened. Allow new growth and insights to emerge.  Almost every great individual faces trials by fire! Even small steps, inner and outer, will maintain momentum, regardless of how it appears to the world.  In the words of Kenny Rogers, “You’ve got to know when to hold ‘em, and when to fold ‘em, and when to walk away.” Re-evaluate your outcomes.  Make new choices based on new information. That’s evolution.

5.  If you know where you are heading, sooner or later you’ll arrive. Rivers run downstream.  Follow the current and enthusiasm in your life, and you’ll find yourself in the flow of synchronicity.  You don’t have to solve everything, nor do you have to know how to do everything!

Complete the step you’re on and you’ll find yourself cooperating with life as it is – and the next step will appear. Repeat often, and to the best of your ability, and you will arrive at a bountiful harvest.

Good luck.  These tips are great, not only for the financial blues, but for life itself.

It’s all part and parcel of the same great adventure.

Keep me posted!

Loving yourself Happy

I’ve heard it said that life is what happens to you when you are busy making other plans.

How true.  James, my late husband, left 92 single spaced pages of ideas and thoughts for his books and poetry. He never lived to see retirement nor get them published.  A school friend signed as a professional football player at 17, and never made it to training camp. His motorcycle slid into a car and he spent the rest of his life as a quadriplegic. Instead of football, he became an engineer, and even drove his own van, operated  by the touch of his finger on the controls! It’s up to us to create happiness from the opportunities we’ve been given.  Rest assured, in the thick of things, it is hard to see beyond the current upset into the potential for growth and happiness. Life isn’t for the fainthearted.

James suffered with life long chronic pain.  When he got past the idea of, “Why me?”  he accepted life as it was and lived a full, productive and happy life – even though he left an unfulfilled dream of being an author. He spent weekends at his writing craft.  James was a writer and he wrote. That was his process and the end result didn’t matter.

My grad school chum and I used to dance together.  He would use his fingers on the joystick of his electric wheelchair to make it move, and I’d dance around him. He told me shortly before he passed away that he had the most amazing life. He confided that his condition was a great gift – a living experience of being loved ‘from the inside out.’ – and he knew himself as a Beloved Child of God.  He lived a happy life.

It’s not what happens to us that determines our happiness and joy.

Happiness is a moment by moment process, not a one time event.

It is up to us to choose happiness.

I like knowing what’s ahead.  I also like to control outcomes! Health challenges, the uncertainty of change, financial, physical, emotional, mental or spiritual pain are signals that something’s afoot. I can attempt to control the outcome of everything and plan my life, but life really plans me. When I decide to consciously choose positive thoughts, I get to emerge victorious!  Some days I play the romantic, the martial artist, entrepreneur or author. Other days the victim, victorious, wise one or fool. They are all facets of my personality. Life is my playground, and I can change thoughts as I please.  When I change those thoughts to ones of loving, compassion, acceptance and gentleness, life gets happy indeed. It’s so much more fun to be happy!

Life is an adventure. Letting go and trusting that all is well, regardless of how it looks on the outside, sometimes comes down to breathing in and out.  They say in 12-step programs that the first step is to say, “God (Higher Power) I can’t, you can, please help.”  That’s great advice for all of us when the going gets tough.

Here’s your challenge for the week: Drop the story of why your life is or isn’t what you want and love yourself happy.  If not how, when?