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Mar 13, 2012

What You Believe Does Matter!

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Today I helped support the launch of Eldon Taylor’s new book, “I Believe: When What You Believe Matters.

I don’t do that often, but this book is a keeper!

Over the years, I’ve seen the miraculous shifts to joy-filled living as old outdated beliefs are transformed. It doesn’t matter where they come from, only that you recognize them for what they are, accept, and shift your belief system into something that supports you in living your life to the fullest. It takes courage, compassion and commitment to look inside and find the answers to your own life’s questions.  Life always questions you. How you answer (respond) is determined by what you believe.

If your life isn’t what you say you want, in spite of your best intentions, then it’s time to pay attention to the hidden beliefs steering your life.  Eldon’s book provides a look at the power of beliefs and shares how he was able to liberate himself from the tyranny of belief(s) and what he learned from working in the field of criminalistics, where he specialized in subliminal communication, lie detection and forensic hypnosis. He speaks first hand about the amazing impact of heart surgery in his own life, and how it further changed his life.  His book is a cookie jar filled with treats that illuminate and inspire!

Years ago I heard a wise elder in the Seneca nation say that, “What we say or do ripples out and touches seven generations to come.” Eldon’s tireless research into the mind brings the science into that statement.

The questions he asks will move you, if you choose, to look at every aspect of your life, to step free from the automatic responses that stem from unexamined beliefs, media induced mind viruses that breed mediocrity, and the myriad of other sources that contribute to what we  believe.  His stories will lift you into a state of mind that supports a life filled with “I believe I can.”

It’s time for all of us to live lives by design.  To do that we must take the leadership role in our life – starting with our beliefs.  Strong beliefs that support you will create strong habits, strong focus, and the willingness to live life with positive focus and positive self-leadership.

Eldon’s book is all about authenticity. I love what I’ve read, and can’t wait to have the hard cover in my hands!   Thanks Eldon, for sharing your wisdom, your humor, and your stories and your tireless commitment to making our world a better place – starting from the inside out.

To learn more about Eldon or to take part in his generous launch offer,  you can go to: http://tinyurl.com/i-believe-book

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Dec 10, 2011

What Are You Not Aware Of?

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Let’s Explore What Lies Beneath Your Conscious Awareness, So You Can

Expose the True Key to Your Future Success

Everything you’ve heard is a partial truth. All the things about the Law of Attraction, The Secret, the power of the unconscious mind, it’s all true – as far as it goes.

You may have even attempted to harness this truth to attract things into your life: more money, better relationships, improved health and so on. Bet it didn’t work for long.

Unfortunately, most people only skim the surface of this information, and don’t fully realize what needs to happen in order for it to work properly. It’s not a quick fix, nor a get rick quick scheme. If it seems to be too good to be true, it probably is. In fact, right now there is a lot of backlash from folks who’ve been disappointed at their lack of results.

You see, there usually needs to be some clearing to be done in order for you to attract what you desire. That’s where the law of attraction breaks down.

There is something in your unconscious, perhaps an unpleasant event in your past, a bad habit you can’t break, something you feel guilty about, someone you can’t forgive, etc. that is holding you down, keeping you from achieving true success and happiness. Not to mention conditioning, genetics or health issues.

That’s why you go one step forward and two steps back.

That’s why you seem to be suffering from self-sabotage.

That’s why you always seem to fall short of your goals.

It’s frustrating, demoralizing and confusing. And it needs to stop. Now.

I have a gift that I’d like to share with you. As a result of huge life challenges and a life-long commitment to my own growth and learning, I’ve developed the innate ability and received the scientific training to actually read your unique energy field. YOUR energy is the internal key to all of your life’s potential.

Only a handful of people in the entire world possess this gift and use it to help others.

Thanks to a rare marriage of Western logic and martial arts East, and a life filled with opportunities to hone these skills, I have mastered the ability to combine wisdom, intuition, and clarity which allows me to know which specific questions to ask you that will help you to unlock your greatness. Clarity begets clarity, and my job is help you get clear about your life and it’s importance.

And when your greatness is unlocked, things get very interesting for you!

We integrate, we move and we manifest. The results are swift and truly astounding.

Let me show you how it works. Click here to contact me or call me directly at (310) 280-3966 or email: info@beyondwordsgroup.com

Filed Under: Changing Thoughts, Self Awareness ·
Dec 10, 2011

Why Your Unconscious Mind Trumps the Law of Attraction

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Why Your Unconscious Mind Trumps the Law of Attraction…

…and What You Can Do About It

On the surface it seems like everything’s going along nicely.

  • Your career is on track.
  • You have a nice family who loves you.
  • You’re in relatively good shape.

So if everything is going so well, why are you still so unsettled?

With all you have going for you, why is it that you’re unable to get to that next step, to get over that next hurdle, to reach the finish line of self-actualization?

Sometimes it feels like you’re swimming against a current that’s keeping you stationary, even though your strokes are strong and true, and you’re getting more and more tired, but you must keep going because you hold out hope that, eventually, the current will subside, but it never does. Your life may appear good on the surface, but is it your best life, a life you dare only imagine?

That “current” is your unconscious. There are things left undone, past issues which have been left unresolved, old mindsets and attitudes that have worn out their welcome: guilt, shame, blame, anger, resentment, or other outdated modes of self-sabotage that may still linger in the shadows.

See if any of these scenarios ring true to you:

Your expenses always rise to meet the level of your income…

You fall just short of meeting important goals…

You have trouble saving for the future even though you know you must…

You’re always just “this close” to real, lasting success at work or in your business…

You think you are in the relationship of your dreams, and then Mr. or Ms. Right just fizzles away…

Your spouse shocks you with a divorce you never saw coming…

First of all, if you saw yourself in any of the above situations, you are in good company. There are millions of people like you who continue to suffer with similar frustrations because they lack the tools to unlock and reprogram their unconscious minds. Even a small incident as a child, long ago forgotten and left unrecognized, has the power to run your life.

This is precisely why The Law of Attraction falls short for most people.

They see the movies, read the books and perform the visualizations and other exercises they are told to do to attract wealth, health or love, but to no avail. The Law of Attraction can make you a good swimmer, but it can’t control the current. You need to calm the waters of your unconscious mind before any real progress can happen.

Now for some good news – you can Bridge 2 BrillianceSM

This “current,” this unconscious force holding you back, is actually a good thing! Every action or inaction that accompanies us through life has a definite purpose, even if it is not at first visible.

Rather than fear the unconscious, you can learn how to harness its power and read its messages.

It is said that the truth will set you free. Uncover the unconscious truth, and you will be set free to move beyond those unknown limitations into greater clarity, brilliance, and manifestation. However, the truth without action still results in inertia.

Throughout the centuries, mystics, shamans, saints and sages have learned how to disable the unconscious programs that create havoc. What made them great was their choice to move through their personal tragedies and transmute them into wisdom, clarity, and brilliance. They risked letting go of control and discovered the greatest control of all: cooperation with life as it presents itself.

I’ve faced many powerful challenges in my own life, and endured the constrictions and compressions. Having walked that path, I’ve become uniquely positioned to help you identify and release the obstacles that prevent you from living brilliantly. Every diamond faces it’s compression and trial by fire. Humans are no different. Those that dare to play with life will find their own true brilliance.

You will Get Clear and Get Connected

You can tap into who you really are and shake off what’s holding you back. Elevate your life and get connected to your inner sources of brilliance. Your inner wisdom will lead you to discover the tools to live a brilliant life. And the best news is…it’s easier than you think!

The end result? Picture a life fulfilled. A place where your goals are met, your relationships are constantly blossoming with each new day. A lifestyle filled with a steady flowing stream of abundance. It’s not only possible, it’s your birthright.

The first move is yours…

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Filed Under: Changing Thoughts, Goal setting, Self Awareness ·
How to Release Your Worry
Aug 27, 2011

How to Release Your Worry

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Cheer Up

Earthquakes, hurricanes, the economy. Some days, all it takes is a negative thought or two to trigger a downward spiral of stress!  Here’s an experiment you can do that will help you take your life back when the worry bug strikes.

Notice your mind. You are NOT your thoughts. Just observe, acknowledge and accept them for what they are – transitory clouds that are passing through.

Breathe into your worry. Love it as though it were a child who just had a nightmare.  It’s not real, it just seems that way.

Now think of something that makes you smile. Put the smile over the worry.  What would you prefer – a smile or worry?

Repeat as necessary. In time you will find an upward spiral into unreasonable peace. Don’t take my word for it, just get busy and find out for yourself.

If the worry feels bigger than you, acknowledge that too. Just acknowledging what is present inside can create forward momentum. In tai chi, we call it “yielding to win” or going with the flow.  In the end, it’s so much easier than demanding things be different than they are.

If you’d like to participate in a 30 Day Mastering your Mindset Foundational Program, click here for details about how you can begin practicing the art of building inner peace.

 

 

 

Filed Under: Changing Thoughts, Dealing with Fear ·
Jul 24, 2011

How to Turn Stuck Moments into Successful Momentum

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Magic moment are the flip side of feeling stuck. Everything lines up, you’re in the flow and there’s no doubt that you’ll succeed.  The more attention you pay to your body, mind, emotions and spirit, the easier it will be to handle stress when it comes knocking at your door.

Some days the stuck gremlin wins.  Spend some time getting familiar what triggers your stuck monster.  Experience is the best teacher. Let your gremlin show you how to disarm it.  Turn stuckness into successful momentum with the following tips:

Don’t judge the situation! Get curious. Examine your body, emotions, thoughts and your interpretation of what is happening to you. Look at your body/mind/emotions/spirit as your inner team.  Spend time in honest communication with yourself.  This is the essence of the “inner game” that aligns and powers up your confidence.

Physically:  Identify one thing that you’ve been putting off. Begin taking action. Get busy and clear away the old.  Clean out your closet, apply for a job, just get physical.  The more you release physical energy, the more likely it is for something new to arrive. Every small completion opens the door for more energy and clarity to fill the empty space.

Emotionally: Identify the fears, fantasies and feelings that stop you before you get started.  Breathe.  The three “F’s” have one job:  To protect you.  That’s wonderful.  However, often they are protecting you from something deeply buried.  Many of my clients often  hold an unconscious interpretation of life taken from past experience. Once identified, it loses it power to keep you stuck.

Are you resisting?  Feel paralyzed, unable to take action?  Chances are your protective mechanism is in full swing! Take small actions and continue moving forward.  How?  Recognize that feelings are not facts.  They are thoughts felt physiologically in the body.  Focus on loving yourself with every step you take.  Allow yourself to just sit with your feelings.  This isn’t always easy!  That’s why when we are upset, we distract ourselves with relationships, spending, eating or drinking too much.

Mentally: Observe what your mind is saying.  The mind says lots of things, many of which have nothing to do with current reality.  In fact, an unexamined mind is a guarantee that life will be a “mind field” of challenge, drama and limitation. Don’t let your mind take charge.  Pay attention to your mind’s games. It’s fascinating and freeing to observe and evaluate your life as it is unfolding.

Spiritually:  Meditate, contemplate and take the time to become still.  One of my teachers, Twylah Nitche, used to say that true mastery of life only comes when we “Enter the Silence” so that the greater truth, peace and love that passes understanding can be ignited.  Only then can you walk in the world without being taken prisoner by life’s challenges.

There you have it. Physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually.  Four areas of life to choose from.   Love your stuck monster. Play with it for as long as it takes to uncover it’s message.  As the poet Rumi says, “This being human is a guest house.  Every morning a new arrival…. The dark thought, the shame, the malice, meet them at the door laughing and invite them in. Be grateful for whoever comes, because each has been sent as a guide from beyond.”

 

 

 

 

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